Then, let’s talk about The American DREAM.
In Cuba, I spent my childhood and upbringing. I won't delve into the topic of Communism or what Castro may have taken from me or my family, because that would be a lie. In truth, Castro's government never gave us anything, so they couldn't have taken anything from us either.
Growing up, my father instilled in me an appreciation for the American dream. Despite feeling like he could never quite reach it himself, he encouraged me and others to pursue it with courage. He wanted us to embark on an adventure to find the missing piece of the puzzle that he had lost. His passion for the American dream was contagious, and I am grateful for the values he taught me.
My father possessed the most crucial pieces of the puzzle: his parents, siblings, and the chance to spend weekends with them, singing and creating memories. He had his family. However, what he truly desired was freedom - the fundamental freedom that we all require to become the best version of ourselves. Tragically, it was snatched away from him, and he was aware of it.
Then one day, when I was 23, my father unexpectedly died from a heart attack. After my father's death, I knew I had to leave Cuba. And find that missing piece that he could not have or made him proud. I have been searching for that American dream my father once told me.
After spending almost 15 years in America, starting my own family, and chasing the American Dream, I been busy trying to achieve the material part of the dream.
However, I been unknowingly learning the valuable lesson of perseverance. THAT, Freedom is a precious but costly commodity. THAT, The true essence of the American Dream still exists. Let's continue to strive for it. We must discover what brings us joy and fulfillment. Let us not clutter this empty space with meaningless pursuits; instead, let us open our hearts and listen to a beautiful melody. Read a poem or write a letter to a friend THAT can be a great way to cope with pain and struggles. It's important to face our struggles rather than numb them out because the suffering can teach us valuable lessons and help us become the best version of ourselves.
The American Dream, as my father once explained to me, is an absolute. If you dare to believe in the possibilities that exist in this country, and if you have a family or even just one friend to lean on, and you believe THAT God is with you, my friend, then you are in the right place. I am grateful to my father for giving me the best gift of all - the belief in the American Dream.
